How do I save my marriage from my thinking false stuff is happening?

I need help on how to save my marriage , I have cheated in my wife on the past , several times and now I always think something is going on that is not and it is pushing us apart. I don't have proof of anything wrong she has done just what I think she has done and She has about had it with me because of it. I dont know what to do ?How do I save my marriage from my thinking false stuff is happening?
You think she is cheating because YOU have cheated in the past. If she has learned to trust you after you cheated on her, then you need to trust her because she is one hell of a woman for taking you back! You are feeling guilty and transferring those feelings onto her.


The best way to get past all of this is to just talk about it. Tell her you love her and prove to her that you have eyes only for her. I think it will make you feel better.


Good luck!How do I save my marriage from my thinking false stuff is happening?
First, you should talk to him. Have an open communication with your wife. Don't hesitate to ask her about whats going on with your relationship. Just talk to her and avoid arguments. Listen to her and give also your opinion. Or try this http://www.solutionbay.org/problems/how-can-i-save-my-marriage

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i think you are thinking she is going to ';pay you back';.. if she choose to forgive you then i think that you shouldn't continue to taint the marriage and accuse her ..if she is getting fed up with being falsely accused you are just keeping up term oil when you could be THANKFUL to have a wife that forgives ..she obviously loves you to still want to stay with you - just make sure you don't hurt her again ... the energy u take to accuse use that to show her how much you appriciate her and love her .. that way you 2 can move forward with your marriage .. and continue to grow stronger from this incident ..
Your paranoid. Just because you're a cheater doesn't mean EVERYBODY else is a cheater. Chill out already sheesh.