How do you cope up with false gossips about you?

How do you cope up with situations and people all against you, talking everything false about you, gossips disturbing your life ,and you innocent yet helpless?How do you cope up with false gossips about you?
Find out where the source is coming from. Confront them about it, and/or start gossiping about them too.How do you cope up with false gossips about you?
You cannot ignore people who, as a group, are doing this to you. You need to confront it or spend your time elsewhere where they don't exist (if it's possible). If it is one person doing all the gossiping, then I would confront them with the persons they were telling the information to. Once they are confronted, they usually know they can't get away with talking about you.
well... there's not much you can do. I've been there, done it.... and I know how it feels.


Now thinking back to my previous experiences, I can't help but wonder why I never just confronted them.


First, ask them why they are spreading rumors about you. It never helps if you get people to back you up and create a war---%26gt; it will only make things worse.


If they start saying BS like ';Oh, we don't like you'; or ';It's because you're a total loser'; or something then please, tell them to get a life and stay out of yours.


Even if they did start false rumors about you, they have NOTHING to back it up, only you do right? If people doubt you, then tell them to prove it. If they can't prove it, then everyone would know that they're wrong and just starting something really stupid.





I know, it's hard not to think about it too much but please don't put it to heart.





Well, good luck! I hope my answer helps you. =)
It is difficult at best to know someone is talking trash about you. If it can't be ignored, have a conversation with the person and ask why they are doing it. I would bet the person will become defensive, but at least you will have made the point that you know it's going on, it isn't truthful and it hurts you. good luck!
i ignore them and don't socialize with those people. fi they are your coworkers, just do your job, don't talk about your private life, be kind but distant to them, do your job and leave the work.try not to think abotu them. there are always jealous people everywhere.
the gossip creator wants to see you get upset. so try to just ignore it. the people that know you, know the truth.


if you find out who is telling these rumors, you may try to ask them why they are doing it without being confrontational. good luck
if it's not true than don't worry about it. just be your self and keep your head up. you are innocent until proven guilty. lol
Why are you helpless?


Can they prove what they're saying?
just try to ignore them if it's not a very big issue...


ask the people spreading the rumours, the reason for them...


might help :)